294. The Intimacy Episode


Heads up: This episode contains adult content—pop in your earbuds if the kids are around!

We are excited to dive into a topic we haven’t discussed in a while: intimacy. Whether you're newly postpartum or deep in the trenches of parenting, we know that maintaining a healthy sex life with your partner can feel complicated—and sometimes like just another thing on your to-do list.

We’re sharing what has worked for us personally, how our sex lives have shifted through different seasons of motherhood, and how we’ve learned to reconnect with our partners along the way.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • How sex changes during different stages of parenthood (especially postpartum).

  • The impact of hormonal and physical shifts on your desire for intimacy.

  • The difference between spontaneous vs. responsive sex drives—and why understanding yours matters.

  • Tips for improving communication in the bedroom (hint: start with what you do want).

  • Easy ways to rekindle connection and feel more like a team again.

And make sure you stay tuned to the end—we polled our community and we share your amazing, real-life recommendations for improving intimacy that you won’t want to miss.

Whether you're looking to reignite the spark or simply feel closer to your partner, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt insight to support your relationship.

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